Saturday, February 24, 2018

March Genealogical Events in the Northwest Suburbs


Every month, the first week of the month, I list genealogical events being held in the Northwest Suburbs of Chicago for about the next six weeks.  Most events are free, but sometimes you will need to register in advance, especially sponsored by a public library.  If it is sponsored by a genealogy society, you probably will not need to register unless there is a fee.  Check the website listed for more information.

Learning Your Way Around Ancestry DNA by Karen Stanbary
Arlington Heights Senior Center

March 5 7:00 PM
Top 10 Tips and Tricks for Genealogical Research by Jacquie Schattner
Indian Trails Library, Wheeling

March 6 9:30 AM
Moving Forward by Looking Back by Kimberly Nagy
Gail Borden Library, Elgin

March 7 7:00 PM
Genealogy, Where Do You Look?  by Jacquie Schattner
Arlington Heights Memorial Library

March 7 7:00 PM
Newspaper Necessities by Tina Beard
Palatine Public Library

March 8 7:00 PM PM
Ancestry.com Library Edition by Jan Haldman
Pointe Outreach Center, Crystal Lake

March 8 7 PM
Recreating Lost World War I Records by Tina Beaird
Mount Prospect Public Library

March 10
DuPage Genealogical Society’s All Day Conference – many speakers
NIU Conference Center

March 10 1:00 PM
Complete Photo Restoration in 4 Easy Steps by Eric Bair
Northbrook Public Library
http://nsgsil.org

March 15 7PM
Planting Your Family Tree; Beginning Genealogy by Judy Van Dusen & Cheryl Winter
Gail Borden Library, Elgin

March 17 10:30 AM
What’s New in Technology by Ed Rosenthal
Schaumburg Township Public Library

March 27 7:00 PM
Intro to WikiTree by Marty Acks
Helen Plum Library

March 28 7:00 PM
Looking for European Roots by Caron Primas Brennan
St. Charles Library

April 3 9 AM
Adding Context: Social History for Genealogists by Ginger Frere
Gail Borden Library, Elgin

April 4 7:00 PM
Genealogy – Where Do You Look? by Jacquie Schattner
Fremd High School

April 7 10 AM
Church Records for Genealogy by Jacquie Schattner
Arlington Heights Senior Center

April 10 7:30 PM
Family History’s Navigational Tool: Genealogical Proof Standard by Laura Cosgrove Lorenzana
Schaumburg Township Public Library


Friday, February 9, 2018

DNA Test in Year 1999 to Find Family – A Nostalgic Look Back


My favorite DNA story, is not my own, but one told by a chance meeting with a neighbor in 1999. Our neighbor, had asked our son to watch the dog over a weekend while they went to a family reunion in Wisconsin. He stopped by with the house key and being curious about anything family related, I asked about details. He told me this fabulous story about his father-in-law and DNA. Twenty years later, it is still one of my favorites. Names and a few details have been changed because frankly, I don’t remember them. But the story is true and shared to the best of my ability.

We’ll name f-i-l Garett Smith. He was born in a small town in Wisconsin, in the late 1930’s just before World War II broke out. Garett was raised as an only child by a single mother, a hard-working waitress. He never knew his father, and his mother, Maggie Smith, never gave him any details. In the 40’s and 50’s, boys respected their mom’s wishes and knew not to ask. He was not even very curious. He had plenty of friends and family, aunts, uncles, grandparents. Garett lived his young life in this small town, where everybody knew everybody but not a paternal hint…until in his teens, at a family gathering someone pulled him aside and said, “You must keep this a secret, but your father’s name is William Carlson.”

Nothing more. He wasn’t sure whether to believe this or not, but he remembered the name. Was the story true? Would he find William Carlson?  But as good young men did in the 50’s, 60’s and 70’s, he kept this secret from everyone. Especially his mother. He moved to the Chicago suburbs, had a wife and children, was successful in business. The kind of guy you want as your friend.

In the 1980’s, his dear mother, still in the small Wisconsin town, died. In going through her things, he found a box of World War II letters, from a fighter-pilot named (you guessed it) William Carlson. Garett read each letter carefully looking for clues. Nothing was written in them that indicated a romantic relationship between Maggie and William. They had attended high school together, and the letters were friendly, but nothing indicated anything more.

Garett saved those letters. He found out more about William Carlson - fighter-pilot. Turns out William was a hometown hero, who had died in battle. Lots of newspaper articles and a big funeral, when Garett was too young to remember. Over the years, William’s heroics had faded from the memories of the town’s people, but in his day, William Carlson was well known, and sadly missed. Other Carlsons still lived in the small town. Garett had gone to school with Carlson classmates. Growing up, they were considered a rather prominent and wealthy family. Still keeping his secret, he said very little.

In the 1980’s using DNA for genealogical purposes was just developing. One needed a large sample and it was used mostly for evidence in murders and other crimes. The only thing Garett possibly had was bit of dried saliva from the seal on the envelopes. He waited and waited, and in 1999, he paid a great deal of money to a lab to use his DNA and that from 50 year-old envelopes tested. The results were astonishing – a match. He was the son of William Carlson!

He thought of his Carlson classmates. He wrote a carefully worded letter to those with whom he was most friendly. By then all the Carlsons of his mother’s generation were gone. Did anyone he knew remember anything? The reply was wonderful, warm and included an invitation to a family reunion that the living Carlsons, his generation, would give in his honor. That was where the Garett Smith and his entire family, including those in our neighborhood, were going that weekend in 1999.

At the reunion, Garett learned that some of his older Carlson cousins (William’s nieces and nephews) remembered whispers that Uncle Bill might have fathered a child. At the time, they were too young to know the details. They remember that Uncle Bill wanted to marry the mother of his child, but his family said no. Apparently Maggie Smith, waitress, was “not their kind.” In the 1940’s good men did what their parents told them to do. Still single, William volunteered for military duty and gave the greatest sacrifice, his life.

The 1999 reunion was a success. Garett and his family were welcomed with open arms and continued to have contact for many years. Now, hopefully you enjoyed this story as much as I did almost 20 years ago. DNA testing for genealogy is so common now, we hear many stories of reunions, successful and not so successful. But at the turn of the century (1999), this story was nearly unbelievable and even now, is a very sweet reminder of how nice one’s family can be.



Tuesday, January 30, 2018

February Genealogical Presentations in the Northwest Suburbs

Every month, the first week of the month, I list genealogical events being held in the Northwest Suburbs of Chicago for about the next six weeks.  Most events are free, but sometimes you will need to register in advance, especially sponsored by a public library.  If it is sponsored by a genealogy society, you probably will not need to register unless there is a fee (which is designated by the $).  Check the website listed for more information.

February 3 10 AM
Funeral Homes and Family History by Daniel Earl (via webinar)
Arlington Heights Senior Center

February 6 9:30 AM
Suffering, Survival & Serendipity by Jim Weirman
Gail Borden Library, Elgin

February 8 7 PM
Newspapers.com by Alice Hayes
Pointe Outreach Center, Crystal Lake

February 10 10 AM
How to Use DNA in Genealogical Research by Caron Primas Brennan
Naperville Public Library

February 10 1:00 PM
Using DNA Test Results in the Genealogical Proof Standard by Karen Stanbury
Glenview Public Library
http://nsgsil.org

February 12 7 PM
Top 10 Tips and Tricks for Genealogy Research by Jacquie Schattner
Palatine Public Library

February 13 7:30 PM
Voyages of Our German Immigrants by Teresa Steinkamp McMillin
Schaumburg Township Public Library

February 14 7 PM
Brick by Brick: Finding Your Home’s Past
Fountaindale Public Library

February 15 7 PM
Abraham Lincoln by William Kolasinski
Gail Borden Library, Elgin

February 17 10:30 AM
Tracing Your WWI Immigrant Ancestors in “Alien Papers” by Debra Dudek
Schaumburg Township Public Library

February 20 7 PM
Using Fold3.com by Caron Primas Brennan
St. Charles Library

February 21 6:30 PM
Untying the Knot – Divorce by Kimberly Nagy
Wheaton Public Library

March 3 10 AM
Learning Your Way Around Ancestry DNA by Karen Stanbary
Arlington Heights Senior Center

March 6 9:30 AM
Moving Forward by Looking Back by Kimberly Nagy
Gail Borden Library, Elgin



Wednesday, December 27, 2017

January Genealogical Events in the Suburbs

Happy New Year! 

If you are like me, with a quiet genealogy month in December, I have a renewed spirit to start out the year with a push into learning new ideas.  I’m looking forward to attending several of the events listed below.  Here are the presentations in the area for the next six weeks or so.  If I’ve missed an event or you know of a society that can be included, please let me know.  Most of these events are free, but please check the website listed for more information and if necessary, any registration.  


I hope your genealogy research is successful in 2018.

Creating Your Family History Album by Paul Robinson
Gail Borden Library, Elgin

January 6 10 AM
Digitizing Photos and Slides by Debra Dudek
Arlington Heights Senior Center

January 9 3 PM
Beginning Genealogy by Jacquie Schattner
Arlington Hts Library
http://www.ahml.info/

January 9 7:30 PM
Optimizing Your Searches on the Internet by Maureen Brady
Schaumburg Township Public Library

January 10 7 PM
Tools for Translating and Transcribing Records
Fountaindale Public Library
http://communico.fountaindale.org/events

January 11 7 PM
Swedish Records by Kurt Pearson
Pointe Outreach Center, Crystal Lake

January 13 10 AM
Top 10 Genealogical Tricks and Tips by Jacquie Schattner
Naperville Public Library

January 13 1 PM
Glenview Naval Airbase – Hangar One Foundation by Bill Marquardt
Northbrook Historical Society
http://nsgsil.org

January 16 7 PM
Exploring Church Records by Jacquie Schattner
St. Charles Library

January 16 7 PM
From Piles to Files by Teresa McMillin
Indian Trails Library, Wheeling

January 17 6:30 PM
Reconstructing Your Soldier’s WWI Experiences by Tina Beaird
Wheaton Public Library

January 18 7 PM
Pandemic 1918; Spanish Influenza by Tina Beaird
Gail Borden Library, Elgin

January 20 10:30 AM
Brick by Brick, Tracing Your Home’s History by Tina Beaird
Schaumburg Township Public Library

January 23 7 PM
Emigration & Immigration – Your Immigrant Ancestor’s Story by Jacquie Schattner
Helen Plum Library, Lombard

January 25 6:30 PM
Using Ancestry
Palatine Public Library

February 3 10 AM
Funeral Homes and Family History by Daniel Earl (via webinar)
Arlington Heights Senior Center

February 6 9:30 AM
Suffering, Survival & Serendipity by Jim Weirman
Gail Borden Library, Elgin

February 8 7 PM
Newspapers.com by Alice Hayes
Pointe Outreach Center, Crystal Lake

February 10 10 AM
How to Use DNA in Genealogical Research by Caron Primas Brennan
Naperville Public Library

February 10 1:00 PM
Using DNA Test Results in the Genealogical Proof Standard by Karen Stanbury
Glenview Public Library
http://nsgsil.org

February 12 7 PM
Top 10 Tips and Tricks for Genealogy Research by Jacquie Schattner
Palatine Public Library

February 13 7:30 PM
Voyages of Our German Immigrants by Teresa Steinkamp McMillin
Schaumburg Township Public Library

Sunday, December 17, 2017

Christmas Meme

Again, Randy Seaver has a wonderful meme for this week.  It's an oldie but a goodie. Here are the questions and my answers.  Merry Christmas everyone!

THE 2012 CHRISTMAS GENEAMEME
1.       Do you have any special Xmas traditions in your family?  I wrap so each person gets their own color wrapping paper.  No labels, no bows. I put one wrapped present in their stocking so they know which color is theirs each year. Also, I think it’s unique that we all manage to get-together, normally on Christmas Day – over 20 people make the effort.
2.       Is church attendance an important part of your Christmas celebrations and do you go the evening before or on Xmas Day?  Yes, went to church as children and still do.  This year we are attending our daughter’s church, they have a live nativity scene.
3.       Did/do you or your children/grandchildren believe in Santa? We did and our kids did.  A 5th grade teacher told my daughter, I was furious.
4.       Do you go carolling in your neighbourhood?  My daughters were part of a father daughter group and later a father son group.  They sang at nursing homes.
5.       What’s your favourite Christmas music?  I’m happy with any songs.
6.       What’s your favourite Christmas carol?  Does Mariah Carey’s “All I Want for Christmas is You” count?  It’s my current favorite.
7.       Do you have a special Xmas movie/book you like to watch/read?  I LOVE the movie, “Love Actually. “ (Yes my favorite “carol” is in it!)
8.       Does your family do individual gifts, gifts for littlies only, Secret Santa (aka Kris Kringle)? At Thanksgiving we draw names, so each person buys for only one other person. We also are given lists of things they want, but we can buy something not on the list. Very organized. There are over 20 of us, so it takes a very long time to open.
9.       Is your main Christmas meal indoors or outdoors, at home or away? Always inside – it’s very cold here in Chicago.
10.  What do you eat as your main course for the Christmas meal? If at my house, it’s ham, at my mom’s or sister’s it’s roast beef.
11.  Do you have a special recipe you use for Xmas? Cookies, cookies cookies.
12.  Does Christmas pudding feature on the Xmas menu? Is it your recipe or one you inherited? Nope
13.  Do you have any other special Christmas foods? What are they?  Lots of munchies while opening presents, a big dinner and my mom makes a delicious rum pudding with raspberry sauce we eat with my Christmas cookies.
14.  Do you give home-made food/craft for gifts at Christmas? Cookies
15.  Do you return to your family for Xmas or vice versa? Yes, over 20 of us. My mom and my brother and sister and all our families.Now,  I especially enjoy celebrating with grandkids.  We make time for a second get-together for our 12.
16.  Is your Christmas celebrated differently from your childhood ones? If yes, how does it differ? Still the same.
17.  How do you celebrate Xmas with your friends? Lunch? Pre-Xmas outings? Drop-ins? A variety of get-togethers, dinners, lunches, parties.
18.  Do you decorate your house with lights? A little or a lot?  My husband decorates with thousands of lights outside.  It’s the brightest house on the block.
19.  Is your neighbourhood a “Xmas lights” tour venue? No, but the associations rents a horse and wagon for rides around the subdivision one night to see the lights.
20.  Does your family attend Carols by Candlelight singalongs/concerts? Where? Our Christmas church always ends with a candlelight carol.
21.  Have any of your Christmases been spent camping (unlikely for our northern-hemisphere friends)? Nope – I’m in the northern hemisphere.
22.  Is Christmas spent at your home, with family or at a holiday venue? Until a couple of years ago, it was always at my mom’s.  Now my sister and I split.  This year her place, next year ours.
23.  Do you have snow for Christmas where you live? Yes, lots.  When we spent Christmas with my husband’s family in Buffalo, we could get 3-5 feet!
24.  Do you have a Christmas tree every year? Yes
25.  Is your Christmas tree a live tree (potted/harvested) or an imitation?  When the kids lived at home we always chopped down a tree with friends, saw Mrs. Santa Claus and went out to dinner, the day after Thanksgiving. Once they went to college, we got an imitation and decorated it while they were home for Thanksgiving, which we do with the grandkids.  Our tree has many ornaments on the bottom branches and pretty bare up above, because all of our decorators are under 5.  But I love it and wouldn’t change a thing.
26.  Do you have special Xmas tree decorations?  Yes, we have vintage ornaments from my in-laws, and my husband and I have been buying each other ornaments that represent something that happened that year.  Many times it’s a vacation theme. We did the same for the kids, but gave them theirs the year they got married.
27.  Which is more important to your family, Christmas or Thanksgiving? Pretty even but probably Christmas.


Sunday, November 19, 2017

70 Question Genealogy Meme

Randy Seaver (of Genea-musings) is one of my favorite bloggers.  Each Saturday night, he gives a fun genealogy project.  This week he gave a 70 question genealogy meme.  You might want to try it too!  You'll find it here:  http://www.geneamusings.com/2017/11/saturday-night-genealogy-fun-expanded.html

His questions and my answers are below.  I was very surprised to have 40 yesses. Thanks Randy!


1.             Can name my 16 great-great grandparents.  Yes 
2.             Can name my 32 great great great grandparents No-29  
3.             Can name over 50 direct ancestors Yes 
4.             Have photos or portraits of my 8 great grandparents  Yes
5.             Have an ancestor who was married more than three times No 
6.             Have an ancestor who was a bigamist Yes-later he got a divorce from wife #1 and remarried wife #2
7.             Met all four of my grandparents  Yes
8.             Met one or more of my great grandparents  Yes-2
9.             Bear an ancestor’s given name/s No  
10.          Named a child after an ancestor Yes-all of my children, first & middle names 
11.          Have an ancestor from Great Britain or Ireland  Yes 
12.          Have an ancestor from Asia No
13.          Have an ancestor from continental Europe Yes  
14.          Have an ancestor from Africa  No
15.          Have an ancestor who was an agricultural laborer Yes  
16.          Have an ancestor who had large land holdings  Yes  
17.          Have an ancestor who was a holy man – minister, priest, rabbi No -Catholic priest yes but not a direct ancestor!
18.          Have an ancestor who was a midwife No 
19.          Have an ancestor who was an author No   
20.          Have an ancestor with the surname Wong, Kim, Suzuki or Ng No    
21.          Have an ancestor with the surname Smith, Murphy or Jones Yes  
22.          Have an ancestor with a surname beginning with X  No
23.          Have an ancestor with a forename beginning with Z No 
24.          Have an ancestor born on 25th December Yes 
25.          Have an ancestor born on New Year’s Day No   
26.          Have an ancestor who shares your day and month of birth No  
27.          Have blue blood in your family lines  No 
28.          Have a parent who was born in a country different from my country of birth Yes – Dad    
29.          Have a grandparent who was born in a country different from my country of birth Yes 
30.          Can trace a direct family line back to the 18th century Yes 
31.          Can trace a direct family line back to the 17th century Yes
32.          Can trace a direct family line back to the 16th century No 
33.          Have seen signatures of some of my great grandparents Yes  
34.          Have ancestors who signed with an X (or other mark) Yes
35.          Have a grandparent or earlier ancestor who went to university No  
36.          Have an ancestor convicted of a criminal offense Yes   
37.          Have an ancestor who was a victim of crime Yes 
38.          Have shared an ancestor’s story online or in a magazine/periodical  Yes
39.          Have published a family history online or in print Yes
40.          Have visited an ancestor’s home from the 19th or earlier centuries Yes  
41.          Have a family Bible from the 19th century No 
42.          Have a family Bible from the 18th century or earlier No 
43.          Have an ancestor who was part of a multiple birth (twins, etc.)  Yes 
44.          Have a family member who closely resembles an ancestor Yes  
45.          Have an ancestor who owned their own business  Yes 
46.          Have an ancestor who belonged to a trade guild  Yes
47.          Have an ancestor who moved more than 100 miles away from his/her birth home, EXCLUDING emigration to another country  Yes
48.          Have an ancestor who gave birth to twelve or more children  No-10 
49.          Have an ancestor with a rare/unusual/uncommon forename Yes-Jamima 
50.          Have an ancestral family who changed their surname  Yes 
51.          Have a passenger list or travel manifest for an ancestor Yes  
52.          Have an ancestor who was adopted No
53.          Have an ancestor who adopted a child No   
54.          Have a naturalization record for an ancestor Yes  
55.          Have an ancestor who received a military pension Maybe
56.          Have a school record or school census for an ancestor Yes
57.          Have an ancestor with a gravestone still in existence from the 18th century No
58.          Have an ancestor with a gravestone still in existence from the 17th century or earlier  No
59.          Have an ancestor who had only one child who survived to adulthood Yes 
60.          Are descended twice from one couple No 
61.          Are descended three times or more from one couple No 
62.          Are descended from an American president or other political figure No  
63.          Are descended from a person famous in history, other than in politics  No
64.          Have an ancestor with a rare/unusual/unique surname  Yes-Knudde
65.          Have an ancestor who you have found mentioned in a pre-1870 newspaper  Yes
66.          Can name the ship on which at least one ancestor emigrated  Yes 
67.          Have a female ancestor who worked outside the home pre-World War II Yes 
68.          Know of at least one ancestor who returned to the ancestral home after emigration  Yes
69.          Know of at least one ancestor who permanently returned to the ancestral home after emigration No  
70.          Have an ancestor who was survived by 50 or more grandchildren -No -44 is the most